Psychologycal Development

MY PHYSICHOLOGICAL DEVELOPMENT

By Cindy Lestari Hasanah

      Psychological Development is human development and the factors that shape a person’s behavior from birth to old age.Here,there are 4 stages of the development of psychology,which I tell through my real life.

1.Infancy (0-1/2 years)

      First,nineteen years ago when I was still in my mother’s womb,my mother said I was a strong baby,repeatedly miscarriage but I was still strong.Because of my strength,there are still many in the womb who want me after I am born later.Yes I,before being named,as the last embryo to occupy my mother’s womb.As time went on,my mother didn’t talk when she was pregnant me that I was a child was not troublesome..Even when my mother got pregnant me,unlike the mother in general,who feels lazy to move and wants to sleep.My mother is different,when I was still in his womb.He is actually passionate about working as a gucci seller.And finally,he stopped working because it was banned by my father.When the gestational age my mother had entered her  time,when it was hot in the sun,my mother felt an oddity in her stomach,as well as the pain of giving birth.Which I don’t even know how sick he was gave birth to me.At the time,my mother forgot what time it was,but at that time my mother said that I didn’t want to go out.The reason I didn’t to leave my mother’s womb because my mother didn’t want to be helped by this midwife,she wanted to be helped by a midwife named Reni.Finally,the midwife came,she did nothing,just asked my mother like this “Why sis?which one hurts? *while stroking my mother’s stomach*.And right at 14:00 p.m,born me as their little daughter and marked the date May 25,2000 at that time with a description of *the birth of the little one*.

      

      When I was born,many people wanted me more,bacause at that time I was about three pounds more,fat enough for a few days,I was like baby who could see .my eyes widened looking up.One of the unique stories at my aqiqah event,my mother hadn’t even prepared my name.When it was Mrs.Gimin an art teacher told my mother to give me the name Cindy because there was a very smart student named Cindy.Finally,after a lot of suggest from sibling.And *taraaaaa* finally it was legal for me to bear the name Cindy Lestari Hasanah,the youngest daughter of Mr.Ponidi and Mrs.Poniem.Entering the age of one month,like a general baby,I was able to move reflexively and cried when surprised by the noise.Even then,two month old,I can kick with my little feet,I could stretch my arms and legs,I could lift my head even though it wasn’t too strong.I’ve been able to chew soft food and have started to sit upright.Aged six month and over,I began to be able to crawl,chasing small objects around me and inserting it in to my mouth,motor skills and understanding of languages were also fast developing,I used body language like nodding if yes and shaking my head if not.In socializing,I’m also not a whiny child,so everyone likes to carry me.

 

The photo above is my picture at a monthly age,my mom forgot how old it must be.

2.Early childhood (2/3-5/7 years)

      When I was two years old,I was stopped breastfeeding by my mother.My mother said that between my sister and brother,only I was fully breastfed for two years,so my mother said my thinking skills were a bit different from my siblings.

 

      The photo above is a picture of me when I was three years old,actually I have another photo that has a better pose,but only this is in my cellphone’s memory.My body is really big not? Even though my parents weren’t tall people,but almost all of their children were big-bodied.My mother said,it was descended from my grandfather,my grandfather was a big tall man with black skin like an Indian.Therefore my two brohers were tall and black hilly,while I hugged and followed my mother.

     

       I was taught to bespelled by my mother for four years.I was oftem told to read news on television screens to speed up my spelling in preparation for kindergarten,when I was in five-years-old kindergarten,I entered kindergarten,it turned out that I had just entered two days in the small grade 0,I was immediately put into the big 0 class,Want to know the reason why? Because my kindergarten teacher thought I has more abilities than other friends.i was taught by my mother to be active in class by raising hand when knew the answer.

      

       In 2006,I graduated from kindergarten and went to elementary school,I saw many of my friends were taken and waited by his mother until the class was over,but I didn’t,my independent soul began to appear,not until one day waiting for my mother,I told her to go home,I feel sorry if she has to wait for me a long time.Since then I have only gone home without my mother.When I was in elementary school I always got class champions,all the championship levels I have ever gotten.

3.Late childhood(5/7-pubescent)

      When I was in my chilhood,I still like playing like kids,but at an age like this makes me a child who sometimes violates parental orders,I often take offense and sulk to my parents and often be selfish as a form emotional development.From a social standpoint,I used to play with all my friends without differentiating between good people and bad people,maybe this is what caused me to have a less good character in saying.

4.Early adolescent(pubescent-puberty)
     
      At this stage,I was still unstable,starting a lot of activities at school,at this age I was in junior high school,my weight and height weren’t balance,my weight reached 57 kilograms.I am currently experiencing a general trend,which is rebelling,opposing,uncontrollable emotions and criticisms,but still the mind that tends to fantasize about careers and at this age,actually hasn’t thought of anadult,but feels great like an adult.i think friends also feel,right?

 

5.Masa Adolescence/ late adolescense (pubertas-dewasa)

       This time when I was in senor high schooluntil now (college).During senior high school,my weight decreased due to many activities,this also affected the way of thinking,at this age I had begun to understand how to think adult,respect the opinions of others,what I should do with myself,for my family,and towards my Allah,the purpose of my life is increasingly clear.At this age there are many trials of life that come and the weight of the burden of life.At this time there may be many people who wrongly drop their love for courtship,but that doesn’t mean I don’t fall in love.But,I want to put my love in the time and place,that is when I have managed to carve a smile on the faces of my parents because they’re proud of me.☺

 

Doc : When I was in Senior High School(above), at University of Riau(below).